The Media: My View

Those who know our family know right now we don't have cable. Our two links to Hollywood are movies/DVDs and the Internet. Look, each time we turn on the TV we're handing ourselves and our kids over to Hollywood. By selecting the programs that we are exposed to, I can easily manage and tune out the garbage (commercials, sub-par cartoons, etc). I think it would be easy to watch one good show, and just sit in front of the TV and continue to watch another show that isn't good. So, it's easier for me to simply say, "no TV".

The conference that we went to in Wichita last weekend had a speaker that is Catholic and working Hollywood - Barbara Nicolosi. In one of her talks she noted that there are primarily two camps when it comes to Catholics and the media- 1) Cavemen and 2) Teflon Parents.

Cavemen simply "hunker down" and say, "Hollywood bad. Hiding out good." Essentially, no form of TV, movies or anything are permitted in the house. Rather, children are raised in an environment devoid of the "evils from California".

Teflon Parents say, "Well, it's just a TV show. The kids know that and it won't affect how they live." Or, "It's just a violent video game. They would never act it out."

Barbara says that both camps are wrong. Rather, we need to engage the media and participate in ensuring that it becomes better while picking and choosing what we (and our children) are allowing into our household.

That last thought really struck me. I am quick to point out the shows that I don't like. And, I am quick to reassure myself that it is good that we do not have cable. However, when was the last time that I worked to ensure that Hollywood becomes better?

So, what have I resolved to do?

1. Email. I need to email the creators of shows like the Noggin network and let them know that I love the Backyardigans and The Wonder Pets. I need to email the creators of Lost and let them know that I enjoy their show.

2. Email (part 2) I need to send an email when I see something that isn't quite right. And let them know to keep up the good work and that I'll be tuning in...

3. Raise my children with a love for the arts. Maybe someday, they'll have a part to play in creating beautiful movies that will inspire.

4. Spread the word when I find something good (this post to come soon).

What are your thoughts on the media?